Lā Yahjura: Pencegahan Phubbing terhadap Keharmonisan Keluarga di Era Digital
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Phubbing, La Yahjura, Family, communication, hadith, digital eraAbstract
The advancement of digital technology has brought new challenges to social relationships, especially within families. One such phenomenon is phubbing—the act of ignoring one’s interlocutor due to excessive attention to smartphones or other digital devices. This behavior diminishes communication quality, weakens emotional bonds, and disrupts family harmony. This article proposes a preventive solution through Islamic values, particularly the concept of lā yahjura, found in the hadiths of Bukhari and Muslim. In these hadiths, the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) prohibits Muslims from avoiding or ignoring one another for more than three days, emphasizing the importance of maintaining social ties. This concept is further supported by the CARE strategy (Conscious Awareness, Active Engagement, Responsible Usage, and Empathy Building) as a practical approach to reducing phubbing. By cultivating awareness, responsible use of technology, and empathy in daily interactions, families can rebuild warm and harmonious communication. This study demonstrates that integrating religious values with practical strategies offers a contextual solution to address relational challenges in the digital era.
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